When I was 22, a guy (who wanted to date me) thoughtfully pointed out that I had a big butt and wide hips — for an Asian girl, don’t ya know.
I was, of course, embarrassed. Then I was pissed. So, I pointed out the truth: “Yeah, that’s probably true. But your butt is bigger than mine and you’re a guy. What’s that all about?”
He said I wasn’t very nice.
Listen, if you’re trying to get a date with someone, it’s probably not a good idea to (a) insult them and (b) let it be known that you’re overtly comparing them to other women.
Did we go out, you ask? Nope.
Shredding a bunch of paperwork and I found a copy of one of my old physicals. I had a BMI of 15. No wonder my doctor told me to try to gain some weight when we were trying to start a family.